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1. Trust

Trust that your family has good intentions, even if things get awkward. If you anticipate uncomfortable topics coming up, assume positive intent and show trust in your partner by giving them a heads-up so they feel supported and prepared to navigate the situation with you. 

2. Honesty

Be real with your partner about what to expect. If your family’s known for bold opinions, say so. A quick “My family loves big debates, feel free to just listen or laugh it off!” can help them feel less pressured. 

3. Independence

You and your partner are a team, but you don’t have to have the same answers to everything. Let them handle convos in their way—sometimes just being there together is enough. 

4. Respect

Respect goes both ways. Respect your partner’s comfort level and encourage your family to do the same. No pressure to jump in if they’d rather chill and listen. 

5. Equality

Make sure both you and your partner feel included. If they’re quiet, help bring them into lighter conversations that feel natural. 

6. Kindness

Kindness can go a long way. Compliment your partner in front of your family and keep the vibes light and welcoming. 

7. Healthy Conflict

If things get intense, handle disagreements calmly. Reassure your partner it’s fine to disagree respectfully, but they don’t have to feel responsible for changing anyone’s mind. 

8. Comfortable Pace

Holiday conversations can be overwhelming. If you sense your partner needs a breather, suggest a quick break together—grab a snack, step outside, or just change the topic. Family gatherings often bring up “big questions,” like how serious you are, whether you’re planning to move in together, or even when it’s time to “pop the question.” To avoid surprises, talk about these topics in advance so you’re both on the same page when those questions come up. 

9. Taking Responsibility

Sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment. If you or your partner feels uncomfortable, talk about it later and apologize if needed. Being supportive means owning any missteps, together. 

10. Fun

Make time to enjoy each other! Find moments to laugh and relax together, even if family conversations get heavy. You’ll both appreciate the lighter moments. 

With these tips, you and your partner can face holiday conversations as a team, keeping things drama-free and focused on what really matters.  

Want to read up on 3 Relationship Stressors to Avoid This Holiday Season? Check out this blog! 

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Happy holidays!  

Carla M Kozen, Content Manager

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Be Real and Honest 

First things first, honesty is key. If you know it’s time to end things, have a direct and respectful conversation. Avoid ghosting; it’s way more considerate to let the other person know where you stand. A simple, honest chat can go a long way in making the transition smoother for both of you. Respect their feelings while being clear about yours. 

Social Media Cleanse 

After ending a summer romance or friendship, your social media game needs to be strong. Here’s how to handle it: 

• Unfollow/Unfriend: If seeing their posts is too much, it’s okay to unfollow or unfriend them. It’s about your mental peace. 

• Mute: Not ready to cut ties completely? Use the mute button. You won’t see their posts, and they won’t know you’ve muted them. 

• Change Privacy Settings: Adjust your settings to limit what they can see on your profile. It helps to keep some boundaries. 

• Avoid Real-Time Location Sharing: If the relationship was unhealthy, it’s best to avoid sharing your location in real time. You don’t want to risk surprise visits or unwanted interactions. 

If your relationship is unhealthy or abusive, check out the My Plan App for help leaving that relationship safely or staying safe post-breakup. 

Handling Common Friends 

If you share mutual friends, things can get tricky. Here’s what to do: 

• Be Clear: Let your friends know about the split. They don’t need all the details, just the basics. 

• Respect Boundaries: Avoid making friends choose sides. Be civil in group settings and respect each other’s space. 

• Plan Solo Hangouts: Spend time with friends one-on-one if group hangouts feel awkward. 

Focus on Self-Care 

Ending a summer romance or friendship can be emotionally draining. Make sure to take care of yourself: 

• Stay Busy: Dive into hobbies, hit the gym, or binge-watch your favorite shows. Keeping busy helps distract you from overthinking. 

• Talk it Out: Don’t bottle up your feelings. Talk to a trusted friend or even a therapist if needed. 

• Pamper Yourself: Treat yourself to something nice. A little self-love goes a long way. 

Learn and Grow 

Every relationship teaches us something. Reflect on what you’ve learned from this summer fling or friendship. Use it as a stepping stone for personal growth. 

Ending a summer romance or friendship isn’t easy, but it’s a part of life. Handle it with honesty, care, and a touch of social media savvy. Remember, it’s all about moving forward and making room for new connections. 

 – Carla M Kozen, Content Manager

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