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(Based on “Parent-Caregiver Worksheet: How do I build a positive relationship with my teen”)

Talking to your teen about healthy and unhealthy relationships can feel intimidating. You may worry about saying the wrong thing, making it awkward, or pushing them away. But here’s the truth: your willingness to show up and try matters far more than being perfect.

When you create space for honest conversations, you’re building a foundation of trust that can help your child recognize the signs of both healthy and unhealthy relationships and feel comfortable coming to you when they need support. Here are a few different strategies you can try to get your teen talking.

✨ Spend Time Together

Incorporating family game nights, tech-free dinners and/or 1-on-1 trips with your teen, can build a strong foundation of trust while giving them the space and access to talk to you. It is important that not all of your time spent together is focused on trying to talk about their relationships, creating opportunities for organic conversation is critical.

🎬 Let Media Do the Heavy Lifting

TV shows, movies, and music are filled with examples of both healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors. Using media as examples helps you talk about tough topics without making it feel too personal. It also gives your teen a chance to share their perspective in a low-pressure way.

🙅 Make it a Judgment-Free Zone

The goal isn’t a lecture—it’s connection. Consider what type of support, comfort and respect you seek in your own relationships. Teens often feel uncomfortable with sharing details and trusting their parents with information that will lead them to feeling judged or embarrassed. Lead with open-ended questions and avoid negative language, punishment, or being overly critical of their decisions or what they are sharing.

🛑 Know Your Limits

Sometimes your child may need support beyond what you can provide and that’s okay. Being a trusted adult doesn’t mean having all the answers. It means knowing when to lean on other resources and reassuring your teen that they’re not alone.

🤸 Be Flexible

What works for one parent and teen might not work for another. You may need to try different approaches before you find what feels natural for both you and your teen. Stay patient, keep experimenting, and remember that consistency is what matters most.

Final Thoughts

These conversations might feel awkward at first, but every attempt strengthens your connection with your child. By spending time together, keeping the tone respectful and light, and showing up consistently, you’re helping your teen learn how to spot the signs of healthy and unhealthy relationships and reminding them that they’ll always have your support.

For more guidance visit our Trusted Adult Resource page.

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Trusted Adult – Educator Guide: 1 Hour Summaries https://www.joinonelove.org/resource/trusted-adult-educator-guide-1-hour-summaries/ Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:00:57 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=resource&p=51018 The post Trusted Adult – Educator Guide: 1 Hour Summaries appeared first on One Love Foundation.

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Trusted Adult – Parent & Caregiver Guide: Talk to my Teen About Relationships https://www.joinonelove.org/resource/trusted-adult-parent-caregiver-guide-talk-to-my-teen-about-relationships/ Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:00:45 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=resource&p=50737 The post Trusted Adult – Parent & Caregiver Guide: Talk to my Teen About Relationships appeared first on One Love Foundation.

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Trusted Adult – Parent & Caregiver: Building Positive Relationships with My Teen https://www.joinonelove.org/resource/trusted-adult-parent-caregiver-building-positive-relationships-with-my-teen/ Wed, 01 Oct 2025 05:00:01 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=resource&p=51016 The post Trusted Adult – Parent & Caregiver: Building Positive Relationships with My Teen appeared first on One Love Foundation.

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How to Have Healthy Holiday Conversations with Family (and Prep Your Partner)  https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/how-to-have-healthy-holiday-conversations-with-family-and-prep-your-partner/ Thu, 28 Nov 2024 11:43:05 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=learn_post_type&p=45055 The holidays are a time for family, good food, and—let’s be real—sometimes intense conversations. Whether it’s politics, lifestyle choices, or big opinions, here’s how to keep things calm and healthy using One Love’s 10 signs of a healthy relationship. Plus, tips for bringing a partner into these situations.  Trust Trust that your family has good […]

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The holidays are a time for family, good food, and—let’s be real—sometimes intense conversations. Whether it’s politics, lifestyle choices, or big opinions, here’s how to keep things calm and healthy using One Love’s 10 signs of a healthy relationship. Plus, tips for bringing a partner into these situations. 

  1. Trust

Trust that your family has good intentions, even if things get awkward. If you anticipate uncomfortable topics coming up, assume positive intent and show trust in your partner by giving them a heads-up so they feel supported and prepared to navigate the situation with you. 

  1. Honesty

Be real with your partner about what to expect. If your family’s known for bold opinions, say so. A quick “My family loves big debates, feel free to just listen or laugh it off!” can help them feel less pressured. 

  1. Independence

You and your partner are a team, but you don’t have to have the same answers to everything. Let them handle convos in their way—sometimes just being there together is enough. 

  1. Respect

Respect goes both ways. Respect your partner’s comfort level and encourage your family to do the same. No pressure to jump in if they’d rather chill and listen. 

  1. Equality

Make sure both you and your partner feel included. If they’re quiet, help bring them into lighter conversations that feel natural. 

  1. Kindness

Kindness can go a long way. Compliment your partner in front of your family and keep the vibes light and welcoming. 

  1. Healthy Conflict

If things get intense, handle disagreements calmly. Reassure your partner it’s fine to disagree respectfully, but they don’t have to feel responsible for changing anyone’s mind. 

  1. Comfortable Pace

Holiday conversations can be overwhelming. If you sense your partner needs a breather, suggest a quick break together—grab a snack, step outside, or just change the topic. Family gatherings often bring up “big questions,” like how serious you are, whether you’re planning to move in together, or even when it’s time to “pop the question.” To avoid surprises, talk about these topics in advance so you’re both on the same page when those questions come up. 

  1. Taking Responsibility

Sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment. If you or your partner feels uncomfortable, talk about it later and apologize if needed. Being supportive means owning any missteps, together. 

  1. Fun

Make time to enjoy each other! Find moments to laugh and relax together, even if family conversations get heavy. You’ll both appreciate the lighter moments. 

With these tips, you and your partner can face holiday conversations as a team, keeping things drama-free and focused on what really matters.  

Want to read up on 3 Relationship Stressors to Avoid This Holiday Season? Check out this blog! 

At One Love, we’re dedicated to keeping our resources free through generous donations. If you want to support healthy relationships for everyone, donate here. 

Happy holidays! 🫶 

 

Carla M Kozen, Content Manager

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3.2 Million Strong: How One Love is Saving Lives Through Education  https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/3-2-million-strong-how-one-love-is-saving-lives-through-education/ Thu, 07 Nov 2024 21:09:34 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=learn_post_type&p=44693 Please share this blog with your network across social media, or email it to someone to show your continued support. Every share spreads awareness and helps save more lives.  “I give to One Love because education can stop abuse before it starts. Will you join me?”  In 2010, Yeardley Love was tragically killed by her […]

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Please share this blog with your network across social media, or email it to someone to show your continued support. Every share spreads awareness and helps save more lives. 

“I give to One Love because education can stop abuse before it starts. Will you join me?” 

In 2010, Yeardley Love was tragically killed by her ex-boyfriend just three weeks before she was set to graduate from the University of Virginia. During the trial, her family learned that there had been warning signs of an abusive relationship—signs that went unnoticed. Determined to prevent such tragedies from happening to others, Yeardley’s mother, Sharon, and her sister, Lexie, started the One Love Foundation. They built an organization dedicated to empowering young people with the tools to recognize and escape unhealthy relationships before they escalate to abuse. 

Today, One Love’s educational workshops have reached more than 3.2 million people and trained over 53,000 facilitators. The workshops are used in 1,051 colleges, 1,173 high schools, and even 299 middle schools, ensuring that students at every age learn how to build safe, healthy relationships. 

Your Donation Helps Us Reach Even More People 

Although One Love has already made a tremendous impact, there are millions more young people in need of this education. Every donation helps us develop new workshops, train facilitators, and expand our reach into more schools, nonprofits, and community organizations. With your support, we can continue saving lives by spreading knowledge and awareness. 

How You Can Help 

Your donation fuels our mission to stop relationship abuse before it starts. Here’s how your support makes a difference: 

  • $25: Educates one student. 
  • $100: Trains a facilitator to lead workshops in schools or nonprofits. 
  • $250: Funds the development of new content and curricula. 

Join the Movement and Spread the Word 

When you donate, you become part of Yeardley’s legacy—saving lives through education and awareness. We need your help to extend this mission even further. 

Share your donation with #OneLoveFoundation and challenge your friends to join the movement. 

Together, we can create a future where every person knows the signs of abuse and how to prevent it. 

 

— Carla M Kozen, Content Manager

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Finding Strength in Our Stories: Domestic Violence Awareness Month https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/finding-strength-in-our-stories-domestic-violence-awareness-month/ Tue, 15 Oct 2024 20:58:47 +0000 https://www.joinonelove.org/?post_type=learn_post_type&p=44213 ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This blog includes content and language related to relationship abuse. Please read with care. 💙 October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to illuminate the often-hidden struggles faced by individuals in abusive relationships. At One Love, we believe that sharing stories empowers survivors and helps others recognize the signs of relationship […]

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⚠ Trigger Warning: This blog includes content and language related to relationship abuse. Please read with care. 💙

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to illuminate the often-hidden struggles faced by individuals in abusive relationships. At One Love, we believe that sharing stories empowers survivors and helps others recognize the signs of relationship abuse. Here are a few powerful narratives from our “Share Your Story” campaign that remind us of the importance of support and resilience. Your story has the incredible power to bring hope to fellow survivors. Every journey is unique, and by sharing your experiences, you can offer strength and courage to others who are navigating their own paths to healing. If you believe your story can provide hope and healing, we invite you to share it with us. Our goal is to uplift teens who may currently be facing various challenges, helping them see that they are not alone and that recovery is possible through the support of a caring community. 

Aubrey’s Journey to Self-Discovery 

Aubrey faced bullying from the age of twelve, feeling isolated for years. When she met someone who made her feel valued, it seemed like a turning point. However, the relationship turned controlling. “I realized he was demanding unreasonable requests for my money and intimacy,” Aubrey shares. 

Despite the ridicule she endured, new friendships in college showed her what real love looked like, helping her break free from the relationship. Aubrey emphasizes: “No one deserves to feel trapped. Find your people who help you channel your inner strength; it may save your life.” 

Kia’s Empowering Path 

Kia is a survivor of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Despite her trauma, she is pursuing a double major in criminal justice and paralegal studies to become a victim advocate, supporting those who feel they have lost their voice. Her journey illustrates that pain can be transformed into purpose. 

Carson’s Road to Recovery 

After a year in an unhealthy relationship, Carson felt hopeless and self-doubting. Prioritizing his health and cutting unhealthy ties helped him reclaim his life. “Two years later, I am exactly where I want to be,” Carson shares, reminding us that healing is possible. 

 

These stories show that while the journey through relationship abuse is challenging, there is strength in community and power in sharing our truths. One Love is dedicated to providing free resources to youth on recognizing and addressing relationship abuse. If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship abuse, you are not alone. 

Visit our website to share your story and access valuable resources. Together, we can foster a community that promotes love, respect, and empowerment. 

Help us continue our mission—donate today! For more information, visit One Love Foundation. 

— Carla M Kozen, Content Manager 

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